Do I have OCD?

OCD can have many forms or what we call “subtypes,” and it’s not always how it appears on TV or the latest episode of “Monk.” OCD, put simply, is a pattern of intrusive thoughts that cause us to question our reality, followed up by a compulsion (a repetitive behavior) designed to confirm our reality and arrive at a place of certainty–until the next similar situation triggers another repetitive cycle.

It’s okay though… There’s a way out.

OCD Subtypes

OCD isn’t about eliminating intrusive thoughts.

It’s about relating to them differently.

The crux of OCD is a search for certainty. This could be certainty over identity, safety, health, morality, or truth–just to name a few. This certainty drives people to perform repetitive behaviors or compulsions designed to temporarily relieve uncertainty and anxiety. These compulsions can be time-consuming and stressful to perform, and although they may bring relief, it’s only temporary.

Although intrusive thoughts cannot be willfully controlled, they don’t have to run the show. While they may create a feeling of urgency, you get to choose how you react to that feeling. You get to decide how you want to relate to your thoughts.

In therapy, clients learn to relate to their thoughts from a position of acceptance (rather than judgment or urgency) and understand their thoughts don’t “mean” anything. The feeling that something is wrong is separate from reality.

Exposure and Response Prevention

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is an evidence-based therapy specifically designed to treat OCD. In ERP, clients intentionally expose themselves to situations that elicit intrusive thoughts and anxiety-provoking events that OCD would otherwise tell you to avoid (e.g., touching a public door handle without hand washing). This happens incrementally at a pace that feels challenging but not destabilizing. Clients also learn to stop responding (i.e., performing compulsions) to intrusive thoughts. Through this process, clients learn that 1. the exposure to their OCD-fear didn’t result in a catastrophic event, and 2. their compulsions don’t actually do anything for them long term.

Easier said than done? You’re correct… That’s why I’m here.